The one about The Best Way To Miss Your Flight

Yes, there is an ideal way to miss your flight and I will share how I discovered it. It has become a pattern for me to run late when traveling, however hard I try. So I decided to attempt to perfect the art of missing flights. As for the issue of close calls, it is getting better- I am learning from each travel experience but it is still an area that needs improvement nonetheless.

I have several horror stories of running late for a flight but I will never forget this one back in 2012. At the time, I lived in Cookeville, TN and that summer, my friend had invited me to go on a cruise with her and her family. I had been looking forward to this cruise for months, counting down the days. It was a one week cruise porting at Cozumel, MX, Honduras, Belize, and Cayman Islands. I felt it was a rare opportunity (and I was right, as I haven’t been on a cruise since lol) so I decided to put a significant portion of my savings to paying for it.

The cruise was leaving from Florida, so I would have to fly there first, and probably spend the night (so that I am not late of course). Problemo numero uno– the closest airport to Cookeville is Nashville, TN which was an hour, away so not too bad. I think I misread my itinerary and when I discovered I was leaving much earlier than I had thought, I drove like a maniac to Nashville, praying fervently to God for a miracle.

When I got to the check-in counter, they said I was too late. I am so surprised that I didn’t burst into tears immediately. It was completely my fault. I couldn’t argue my way out of this one. I explained my situation to the travel agent and she took pity on me and searched for alternative flights and sought the necessary approvals. By some miracle, she was able to put me on the next flight to Florida and I didn’t have to pay a dime. Won’t He (God) do it?!

I’ve had a few other close calls, but that was my most dramatic by far. And you’d think that event in 2012 would have done it for me for good, but no. I don’t know what it is. In fact, I do- I HATE waiting at the gate. It’s absolutely boring and a waste of time so I always play this optimization and risk analysis game in my mind to determine the ideal time to leave home or work while taking into account distance, [rush hour] traffic, weather, possible delays, security lines, size of airport, parking, shuttle schedules. It’s all a rather delicate balance, you see ;).


I got myself a bracelet to remember my time in Monterrey/Santiago

So after so many years of traveling, I finally found the best way to miss a flight. I discovered it in October 2015 while I was visiting Monterrey, Mexico. It was my last of 10 days there and it was a Saturday. Tip 1- pick a relaxing day to do it. Saturday is best for this, I’d say Friday is next. Sunday or Monday morning not so good if you are trying to get to work at 8am Monday morning. Depending on your schedule, it can be any day of the week, really. Just make sure it’s a day you are typically relaxing.

The cute restaurant in Santiago, where we had brunch


It was a buffet– so of course, we did the needful πŸ˜‰



Probably round 2 or 3 πŸ˜‰

As it usually happens with me, at the start of a holiday I have this sense that there is so much time to do all I want to do, to check off my tourist list. And then about 48 hours before I leave, I realize the list is only 20% crossed and I start to freak out and a lot of the items on the list end up getting done on the very last day. Tip 2- Don’t try to fit too much on the last day.


The main church in the town center.


They also had an interesting museum- with a clock that told the wrong time πŸ˜‰

So anyway, really, Saturday was the only day I had for this because my friend who I was visiting worked Monday through Friday and so this was the only day she really had time to take me to explore the cute little town of Santiago, see the waterfalls at Cola de Caballo, Β and eat some tasty goat meat at the famous El Rey Del Cabrito.


It was a hilly town with brightly colored houses. Not much people driving around … or walking around for that matter.


The mountains could be seen from everywhere πŸ™‚

The whole time, I was really nervous about making my flight but she kept saying not to worry. I tried not to and focused on my goat meat instead. When we left the restaurant, our last scheduled stop, we were really cutting it close. That day, I experienced the kind of traffic I had never experienced before in Monterrey. I was panicking so much and then I got to a point that I decided it was best to stop panicking.


All I wanted to do was take a picture standing next to the horse. I handed over the money and next thing I knew he was giving me a hand up- I didn’t know enough Spanish to say I was scared of horses [animals].Β 


The waterfall is huge and pretty!

Tip 3- Think about the worst that could happen. Yes, I’m serious. Think about the worst thing, but not for long. This is just to help you come to terms with reality, in case it does happen. So you are not as shocked if it does. lol. For me, the worst thing that would have happened if I missed that flight was that I would have had to get on the next one and I would have had to pay A LOT of money. Worst case. Thankfully, I wasn’t broke. But if I was, I was employed, I’d save the money back up. If I wasn’t employed, then I was already in debt anyway, probably. Or if I wasn’t employed, I wouldn’t be in Mexico in the first place. haha.


It was a yummy meal πŸ™‚

Tip 4- If you are going to miss your flight, make sure it is on the return flight. I know– if one could plan these things then you wouldn’t miss your flight in the first place. lol. All I’m saying is, if you decide to be a little more ‘risk embracing’ – is that even a term?- the better time to do it is when you are going back home. This only works best if it is a holiday, in a beautiful place, with nice weather, preferably with a beach involved :). If it is long/boring/excruciating work trip in the backsides of nowhere and you want to get back to your family, do ALL of the planning to avoid missing your flight.

Tip 5- Stop and smell the roses.Β What I mean is find something positive to hold on to and think about. For example, I’d had such a great time in Mexico, my Spanish had improved immensely, I had met wonderful people, I had free rent for the trip, Monterrey was beautiful, it was great weather throughout — I was perfectly okay staying an extra day!


I never got tired of gazing at the mountains especially this one with its unique horse saddle πŸ™‚

But no matter what, you always want to go home. Home is home. So I kept praying for a miracle. I thought it would be hilarious to tell the story of how God delayed a plane for me. And that’s exactly what he did! As I was sitting in traffic on the way to the airport, I kept getting alert after alert of the revised delayed departure time. I didn’t even get mad at all. Not one bit.

As soon as we got to the airport, I grabbed my bag and ran to the ticket counter to check in. They didn’t even give me any weird looks to indicate I was late in any way. I got to my gate and had to wait at least another hour before we boarded. And a little [unrepentant] part of me wished I had spent some more time at Calo de Caballo ;).

This is why I never learn my lesson completely! LOL.

Tell me, what’s your best/worst [almost] missed flight story?




  1. weekendcampervanning · June 18, 2017

    Lol, you’ve had some close calls! But glad everything worked out in the end. I tend to get really nervous about missing flights, so I’m one of those people who get to the airport really early. I call it “getting steps on my Fitbit time.” My worst missed flight story was on our way to Spokane when there was a delay on the first leg of our trip causing us to miss the second leg. There was no way for us to get there unless we drove 4 hours (we had to get there that night). It was a long day! Enjoyed reading your post πŸ™‚

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    • omobtomtom · June 19, 2017

      Oh wow. Yea it’s not fun when you have to make up for a missed (connecting) flight by driving. I bet it was a long day! And great idea on getting more steps on Fitbit. If only I were more motivated. Somehow dragging my carry on all around the airport just walking doesn’t appeal to me. Hahahaha.

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  2. Ijeoma · June 19, 2017

    I’ve missed my flight twice and both times were completely out my control. First time, the air train for switching between terminals got stuck midway. Second time, I was flying out of ATL and the security line was ridiculously long; I was in line for almost 2 hours. Both times, i got to my departure gate just as the door of the aircraft was closed. Luckily both times, I got re-booked on the next flight without having to pay a dime.

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    • omobtomtom · June 19, 2017

      It’s awesome when you don’t have to pay, especially when it’s not your fault. But that could have ruined some very serious plans though – like a wedding or graduation. Hopefully it wasn’t so critical for you πŸ™‚


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